Trying New Places: A Soulful Nomad’s Guide to Finding Home

There’s something sacred about changing your scenery — especially when you’re feeling out of sync with your life.

After living in New York City for six years, a place that shaped me, tested me, and made me stronger, I knew I needed to take space. I’m born and raised in Los Angeles, so NYC felt like my chosen home — loud, unapologetically ambitious, full of edge and magic. But after a year of solo travel across the globe, something in me shifted.

When I returned to NYC in August 2024, I was excited. It felt like a homecoming… but not in the way I expected.

Because after just a few months, I realized: the energy felt stale.
The spark was gone.
The rhythm of my soul didn’t match the city’s anymore.

It wasn’t just about being tired. It was about being misaligned.

So now, I’m in Mexico City — for the second time this year. This time, I’m staying for a month. And something deeper is landing for me:

✨ The city you choose to live in can shape your energy.
✨ It can either drain your spirit or unlock a whole new version of you.
✨ It can shift how you perceive yourself — and what you believe is possible.

A City Isn’t Just a Place — It’s an Energetic Mirror

Every city has its own frequency. The streets, the people, the language, the food, the nature, the pace — they all reflect something. And when you’re in the right place, things begin to flow again.

You breathe deeper.
You move more intentionally.
You think clearer.
You create with ease.

In NYC, I felt like I was surviving.
In Mexico City, I feel like I’m remembering who I really am.

So Where To Next? I’m Exploring Cities That Feel Like Flow

I’m in a season of alignment over aesthetic. Soul over ego. Purpose over pressure.
Here are five cities that are calling to me — each offering a unique mix of wellness, creativity, connection, and freedom:

🇲🇽 Mexico City

Why it works: The culture is vibrant, the food is healing, and the people are warm. It’s affordable, full of inspiration, and bursting with community. Here, I’ve found time to write, rest, and connect without hustle energy dominating my every move. The wellness scene is growing — think yoga, pilates, juice bars — but without the performance.

Bonus: Direct flights everywhere. Endless art. And something about the energy here just feels real.

🌊 Puerto Escondido

Why it works: Ocean meets spiritual alignment. This beach town on the Oaxacan coast is known for surf, soulful nomads, and sunset rituals. It’s more slow, more inward — but still has enough community to feel supported. Perfect for deep healing, creative writing, early mornings, and quiet power.

Bonus: It’s the kind of place that reminds you how little you actually need to feel full.

🇳🇱 Amsterdam

Why it works: Picture bike rides, canal walks, coffee shop work dates, and a deeply creative spirit. Amsterdam is chic, progressive, and structured — but has that European ease. You can get your work done and romanticize your life in one day. Great for entrepreneurs, creatives, and those craving clarity.

Bonus: Incredible access to the rest of Europe. Work-life balance is built in here.

🇪🇸 Mallorca

Why it works: A Mediterranean dream. Island life but make it elegant. Mallorca gives you coastline + cafes + quiet luxury. It’s wellness-forward, peaceful, and perfect for building something beautiful away from chaos. Think long walks, journaling in linen, slow mornings, and soulful people.

Bonus: Access to Spain + the rest of Europe, gorgeous hikes, and an unmatched sense of ease.

🇵🇹 Lisbon

Why it works: Lisbon blends history, creativity, and warmth. There’s something about the light here — it’s soft, golden, and healing. This city has become a haven for digital nomads and wellness seekers alike. You can work, workout, meditate, meet people, and sip wine by the sea all in one day.

Bonus: Affordable. Walkable. Ocean-adjacent. And it’s becoming the next big creative hub.

The Deeper Why: It’s About Alignment

I’m not chasing aesthetics. I’m chasing alignment.
I want to wake up in a city where my energy feels supported. Where my health is prioritized. Where my creativity feels safe. Where I’m surrounded by people who inspire and uplift me. Where community aligns with my mission. Where we grow and elevate each other.

I want to be around people who are building lives with intention — not just climbing ladders out of fear.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, misaligned, or like your growth has plateaued…
Maybe the shift you need isn’t internal.
Maybe it’s geographical.

So here’s the truth:
You’re allowed to outgrow your city.
You’re allowed to explore a new rhythm.
You’re allowed to find the place that helps you feel free again.

Remember,
You can always return.
Don’t be scared to see what’s on the other side. Take that leap, explore new places, and embrace the unknown. In the end, you only need you. Trust in yourself, your journey, and the wisdom you carry. The path might be uncertain, but it’s yours to navigate, and there’s always the option to come back, regroup, and keep moving forward. The beauty is in the journey, not the destination.

✨ You are your own compass. Go where your energy feels alive. ✨